To achieve accurate knowledge of others, if such a thing were possible, we could only ever arrive at it through the slow and unsure recognition of our own initial optical inaccuracies. However, such knowledge is not possible: for, while our vision of others is being adjusted, they, who are not made of mere brute matter, are also changing; we think we have managed to see them more clearly, but they shift; and when we believe we have them fully in focus, it is merely our older images of them that we have clarified, but which are themselves already out of date. Marcel Proust
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To achieve accurate knowledge of others, if such a thing were possible , we could only ever arrive at it through the slow and unsure recognition of our own initial optical inaccuracies . However, such knowledge is not possible : for, while our vision of others is being adjusted , they , who are not made of mere brute matter , are also changing ; we think we have managed to see them more clearly , but they shift ; and when we believe we have them fully in focus , it is merely our older images of them that we have clarified , but which are themselves already out of date .

Source: In The Shadow Of Young Girls In Flower

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